Providing Your Loved One
with the Proper Alzheimer’s Care
Do you have a loved one that has been diagnosed
with Alzheimer’s? If so, you know how difficult and
stressful it can be to provide your loved one with the care
that he or she needs. After all, you want what is best for
your loved one, but making the right decisions on that person’s
behalf can feel like a complicated process. In addition,
taking on the role of caregiver is a full-time job that
can be exhausting. Therefore, in order to make the process
as positive for you and your loved one as possible, it is
important to understand all of your options and to learn
about the type of help that is available.
Options When Keeping Your Loved One At Home
If you have decided to keep your loved one
at home, it is still best to get help with his or her care.
If you attempt to take care of your loved one on your own,
you will tire quickly and will have difficulty with providing
the proper care. Although you may feel as if you should
take on the responsibility on your own, doing so may actually
hurt you and your loved one. After all, if you are overly
tired, you won’t be able to provide your loved one
with the proper level of care. Obviously, this means that
your needs will suffer as well.
There are many different types of programs
available to help with providing Alzheimer’s care
at home. These include:
• Respite care
• Adult day services
• Home health services
Respite care is help that you receive on
occasion that allows you to take a break from your care
giving duties. You might be able to receive respite care
from other family members or from friends, but there are
also organizations available that provide this service.
Another option is to work with a residential facility, as
many provide respite care services for Alzheimer’s
patients that prefer to stay home.
Adult day services, which are also referred
to as elder care programs, are sometimes designed specifically
for Alzheimer’s patients. As the name implies, adult
day services are available during the day and are generally
available on weekdays only. These programs generally provide
a number of different activities to participants and often
provide lunch as well as transportation.
Home health services can help alleviate
much of the work that is involved in caring for a loved
one with Alzheimer’s. These programs generally provide
assistance with tasks such as dressing, grooming, and bathing
your loved one. The home health service provider may also
help your loved one with tasks such as going to the bathroom
and eating. Depending upon the agency, you may also be able
to receive assistance with preparing meals and with completing
household chores. Some might also provide physical therapy
and most provide assistance with giving medication and taking
care of wounds.
Considering Residential Care Options
If caring for your loved one is becoming
too demanding, you might want to consider residential care
options. There are several questions you should ask yourself
when trying to determine if residential care is necessary.
These include:
• Does your loved one require 24 hour
care?
• Does your loved one need help with taking medication?
• Does your loved one suffer from any other medical
problems, such as diabetes, or require any other specialized
care?
• Is providing care for your loved one causing a negative
impact on you and the rest of your family?
If you answered “yes” to any
of these questions, you may want to seriously consider your
residential treatment care options. There are several different
options for you to select from, with each having pros and
cons to consider. These options include:
• Retirement housing
• Assisted living
• Specialized dementia care facilities
• Nursing homes
Retirement housing may be an option if your
loved one does not require a great deal of care but would
benefit from living in a smaller space. This is because
retirement homes are typically much smaller than a regular
home, which makes them easier to care for. If your loved
one requires more assistance, however, retirement housing
may not be enough to provide him or her with the proper
care.
If your loved one needs help with personal
care, an assisted living facility may be the better option.
These programs, which are also referred to as group homes
and as community-based residential facilities, provide guidance
with personal care but do not need help with daily activities
such as eating or getting in and out of chairs.
Specialized dementia care facilities are
designed specifically to help people with Alzheimer’s
and other related diseases. These programs provide more
supervision and care. They also provide specialized activities
and staff to help care for your loved one. Even the environment
is transformed to help those with memory problems. For example,
visual cues such as pictures or signs may be used throughout
the facility in order to help residents get around more
successfully.
Alzheimer’s patients requiring medical
care are generally best served by nursing homes. These facilities
provide 24 hour care from licensed nurses and often have
special units designed specifically for Alzheimer’s
patients. This way, the specialized needs of Alzheimer’s
patients can be addressed properly.
Making the decision to put a loved one in
a nursing home or other care facility is a difficult one
to make. In fact, you may feel a bit guilty about making
this decision or you may feel as if you are letting your
loved one down. In reality, you are doing what is best for
you and for your loved one. After all, if you are feeling
frustrated and overwhelmed, you won’t be able to provide
your loved one with the best care possible. Your loved one
deserves to receive the best treatment you can offer, which
may involve staying at home and getting help in that setting
or may require enrolling your loved one in a nursing home
facility.